Search Your Ideal Gifts

Thoughtful 21st Birthday Gifts For Her

Looking for gift inspiration on what you can buy her for celebrating her 21st? Turning 21 is an exciting time and you would want to buy her a gift that she is sure to appreciate. These unique 21st birthday gifts for her have been put together to feature a range of gift ideas like personalised jewellery that would make a meaningful keepsake gift to gift sets for a pamper inspired session as we all know she deserves it! Most of these 21st birthday gifts can be personalised by you meaning you can add her name or initials to a heartfelt message to make a truly one of a kind gift for someone special.

The products are affiliate links & we may earn commission at no extra cost to you if you make a purchase. For more information read our affiliate disclaimer. Your Ideal Gifts is an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases.

Personalised Birthday Gifts For Her

Mother Of Pearl Round Locket

A stunning gemstone locket that you can have engraved with your own text and 2 photos inside to create a special gift. 

Buy From Lovelox

Custom Design Locket

A wonderful gift for a loved one, create your own locket for someone special by uploading the design you would like along with text on the reverse side of the locket and 2 photos inside. 

Buy From Lovelox

Moon-Phase Pearl Ladies Engraved Watch

A beautiful engraved watch for her that the engraving will be done on the reverse side of the watch case. 

Buy From Engravers Guild

Happy Birthday with Fizz Hamper
A hamper for her birthday that includes a bottle of Prosecco, jellybeans, chocolates and more.
Buy From Prezzybox


The LTL Shop Gift Card

Know someone who loves their hair care? Choose the value you would like added to this digital gift card and give it as a gift that they can use on all The LTL Shop products. 

Buy From The LTL Shop

Pamper Hamper For Her
For her 21st birthday, why not buy her a relaxing pamper gift set that contains body wash, bath salts, a face mask, eye masks, a chocolate bar and more.
By: PinkCloudsGifts
Buy From Etsy

Happy Birthday Gift Set

Wish them a happy birthday with this gift set that includes luxury foods like a box of chocolates, double chocolate biscuits, strawberry jam, tea bags and more for them to enjoy. 

Buy From Huffkins

Intense Moisture Hair Mask

With a pH balanced formula, this moisture hair mask will help dry and damaged locks. 

Pros:
  • Save 20% off with code IDEALGIFTS20
Buy From FUL
Discount code available until 1st of September 2024

Photo Blanket

Add 7 of your own photos to this photo blanket along with text to create her a one of a kind gift for celebrating her 21st birthday. 

Buy From Amazon

Personalised Pocket Cocktail Recipe Book

If she loves cocktails, she will enjoy using this cocktail recipe book. Add her name to the cover to personalise. 

Buy From Prezzybox

Me to You Bear with Big Age Birthday T-Shirt

A personalised me to you bear that you can add their age and name to the little t-shirt that the bear is wearing. 

Buy From For You Gifts

Bumblebee Chilly's Bottle

A Chilly’s 500ml water bottle that features a bumblebee design. Chilly’s bottles stay cold for 24 hours and hot for 12 hours, ideal for using while on the go. 

Buy From Emma Bridgewater

Melon Thin Travel Yoga Mat

A thin travel yoga mat which is perfect for traveling! This mat is foldable and lightweight to easily carry in a bag.

Buy From Mikkoa


Personalised leather purse
Why not buy her a new personalised purse for her birthday, complete with her name or a message from you. Choose the colour you would like to buy this leather purse in and choose the type of font you would like used.
By: HotDotLaser
Buy From Etsy

Personalised Champagne Flute

Add her name the year she was born to this personalised champagne flute that comes presented in a gift box. 

Buy From Amazon

Personalised Luxury Embroidered Robe
Available to buy in 2 sizes, simply personalise this lovely bathrobe with her initials.
Buy From Getting Personal

Personalised Large Coloured Leather 3-String Photo Album
A personalised leather photo album that you can buy in a few colours. Personalise with up to 2 lines of text to add her name and a message.
Buy From Paper High

21 and fabulous tumbler

A soft pink tumbler that reads ‘21 and fabulous’, ideal for her 21st birthday. 

Buy From Amazon

Personalised leather jute bag

A stylish leather jute shopper, ideal for her to use daily whether that’s carrying her belongs to using when she does the shopping. Make it even more special by personalising with their name or initials. Choose what colour of bag you would like along with the colour for the lettering and give as a lovely birthday gift that she is sure to get a lot of use out of.

Buy From Not On The High Street

Candle Gift Box

This gift box contains 2 scented candles for her to enjoy. There are a few lovely sounding scents to choose from for both candles which has approximately 40 hours of burn time. You can also include a personal message with this gift set. 

By: BeautifullyEssence
Buy From Etsy

Secret Message Personalised Cashmere Socks

Cosy socks to personalise with a secret message underneath. Available in 4 colours along with the option to choose the thread colour, personalise their very own pair of socks that she is sure to love. 

Buy From Not On The High Street


Personalised Best Friend Framed Photo Print

This personalised photo print has a range of customisation options for you to make the perfect gift for someone special. Upload your own photos and enter in the wording you would like.

Buy From Not On The High Street

Dining for Two Gift Experiences Box
Let them choose from over 725 dining out experiences that they enjoy with a loved one or friend. From lunches to afternoon tea, this dining out experience has something for everyone.
Buy From Amazon









Personalised gin glass

Add their name and age to this personalised gin glass that the age can be added in a variety of vinyl colours. 

By: JKWPrints
Buy From Etsy

Personalised Floral 21st Birthday Mug

With ‘21’ in a beautiful floral design, add her name to this personalised 21st mug and give as a gift to celebrate her birthday. 

Buy From Not On The High Street

Happy birthday pamper gift set

A self care package for her to enjoy a well deserved pamper session. This pamper gift set includes a face mask, eye mask, hair and body wash and plenty more. A card is included in this gift set that you can choose the design of along with your personalisation. 

By: MySelfLoveBox
Buy From Etsy

Personalised Love Heart Photo Cushion
A cute heart cushion that you can personalise with a favourite photo of you both. Share a happy memory with her to celebrate her 21st birthday.
Buy From Not On The High Street

We’ve included 21st birthday gifts for her that you can buy your best friend to a member of your family that we hope she will adore. On Your Ideal Gifts we’ve got a number of gift guides for her including birthday gifts for best friends, personalised sister gifts to gifts for your girlfriend.

Personalised Photo Jewellery