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40th Birthday Gifts For Her

Find gift ideas for her 40th in this gift guide that features a wide variety of 40th birthday gifts for her. Whether you are looking for a family member like your sister to finding that ideal gift for your friend. Many of these 40th birthday gifts can be personalised which is great for adding a personal touch to many gift ideas which can be simply adding their name to a heartfelt message.

In this list of 40th birthday gifts for her, we’ve included gifts like personalised photo gifts that you can customise with your own photos, creating a one of a kind gift or her to pamper gift sets as they deserve a relaxing pamper session! We hope you find that ideal gift for her 40th on our website, a gift that she will appreciate.

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Personalised 40th birthday gifts for her

Diamond Set Personalised Heart Locket
A beautiful rose gold heart locket that you can personalise with 2 photos inside and have text engraved on the back.
Buy From Lovelox
Flavoured Gin & Prosecco Gift Set
She does love a tipple of gin? Why not buy her this flavoured gin gift set that serves 3 flavours of gin!
Buy From MicroBarBox

Personalised Floral Wooden Coaster Tray

A cute personalised floral coaster tray with a groove for her drink! Add her name or role along with a message. 

Buy From For You Gifts

Personalised Quilted Charcoal Velvet Wash Bag

Available in a few colours, this personalised velvet wash bag can be personalised with her name or initials. 

Buy From Not On The High Street

'Sending You Hugs And Kisses' Sterling Silver Earrings
A pair of earrings that you can buy in a few colour that would make a lovely gift to send hugs and kisses on their 40th birthday.
Buy From Not On The High Street

Professional Gin Making Kit

She can make hundreds of flavoured gins with this gin making kit that she can impress her guests with!

Buy From Amazon

Candle & Diffuser Gift Set

A lemon scented oil diffuser and candle gift set for her. 

Buy From Amazon

Personalised Special Year Flavoured Gin With Music
Choose from a range of sizes and flavours of gin that you can personalise the label with a year and message. The label will include a scannable code for Spotify that will come up with a playlist created for the year that you’ve entered.
Buy From Not On The High Street

Personalised Orange To Grey Cashmere Mix Blanket Scarf

A cosy blanket scarf that you can personalise with her name or initials. 

Buy From Not On The High Street

Me to You Tatty Teddy 40th Birthday Bear

An adorable tatty teddy bear holding a 40 banner. 

Buy From Amazon

Heart Shaped Acrylic

A keepsake gift for celebrating her 40th. This acrylic gift has lovely wording for her that will make her smile. 

Buy From Amazon

Mini Pamper Spa Kit

A mini spa kit for her that includes an eye mask, a scented candle, bath bombs and more. 

By: SentwithLoveByLisa
Buy From Etsy

40th Birthday Gift Socks

Choose the pattern you would like on these pink socks that you can give as a gift to celebrate her 40th!

By: DesignInventPrints
Buy From Etsy

40th Birthday T-Shirt

Featuring a leopard print ‘hello 40’ design, this t-shirt can be bought in a few colours and sizes. 

By: BorderLes
Buy From Etsy

Make Your Own Bath Bombs Kit
A gift for them to make their own bath bombs! There are a few scents to choose from too!
Buy From Not On The High Street

Personalised Scented Jar Candle
A lovely personalised scented candle that you can add her name.
Buy From Menkind

Personalised Gin Slate Coaster
If she loves gin, she will appreciate this personalised slate coaster that you can add her name to.
Buy From Not On The High Street

40th Birthday Personalised Gift Set

A gift set to celebrate a 40th birthday that includes Pinkster gin, a personalised candle, chocolate and more. 

Buy From Not On The High Street


Personalised Vineyard Rose Wine In A Gold Gift Box
Personalise the label that comes on this bottle of wine to leave a message to wish her a happy 40th birthday.
Buy From Jonny's Sister

Personalised Bath Tray
A wooden bath tray for her to use when she wants to enjoy a much deserved relaxing bubble bath! Available in oak or dark oak, personalise with your own text.
By: GlassofMine
Buy From Etsy

Personalised Rectangular Jewellery Box
A personalised jewellery box that you can buy your girlfriend to celebrate her 40th birthday, complete with a message from you.
Buy From For You Gifts

Prosecco & Food Hamper

With 2 small bottles of Prosecco, Lindt truffle box, Ferrero Rocher, dark truffles and more, this hamper is sure to be enjoyed for their 40th birthday!

Buy From Amazon

Personalised Polaroid Photo Block Stand

With a choice of 3 designs, send your photo to the seller on Etsy along with the wording you would like for the photo block stand. 

By: fromwillow
Buy From Etsy

Personalised Pink Hearts Pint Mug

Beautiful hearts pattern that surrounds a name of your choice. You can choose for the name to be added on the front or back of this mug as well as a message on the base of the mug. 

Buy From Emma Bridgewater

Personalised Pom Pom Slippers
For her to wear on the cold evenings, personalise these slippers with her initials.
Buy From Prezzybox

Relax & Unwind Body Massage Gift Set

A gift set for her to relax and unwind. This gift set includes a wooden body massager and massage oil. 

Buy From IWOOT

Crystocraft 40th Celebration Ornament

A personalised ornament for celebrating a 40th birthday. With ‘40’ dangling down, personalise with your own text on the ribbon above. 

Buy From For You Gifts

Birthday wine box
Personalise this floral wine gift box with their age, name and the sender's name/s to present them with a bottle of their favourite wine.
By: TamiTrading
Buy From Etsy

40 Years Bullet Vase

A beautiful personalised vase that has ‘40’ followed by 4 lines of text that you can personalise with your own message. 

Buy From For You Gifts

Multi photo apron

Create a one of a kind apron for her by adding your own photos and text to this apron. 

Buy From Getting Personal

Tea & Bubbles Hamper

A hamper for her that includes a small bottle of Prosecco, shortbread mini bites, tea bags, cherry and almond loaf and more. 

Buy From Prestige Hampers

Luxury Eco Friendly Candle Gift Box

A gift for a candle lover that gives you the option to choose the candle you would like along with the match box. 

Buy From Not On The High Street

On Your Ideal Gifts we’ve got a number of birthday gift guides for celebrating many milestone birthdays. This includes 30th birthday gifts for her to gifts for her 21st birthday. Aside from gifts picked especially for her birthday, you can also find gift ideas that are great to give for any occasion like wedding anniversary gifts for her to personalised engagement gifts for her.

Personalised Photo Jewellery